Adopting a Shy Cat

Your Cat Chooses You?

Carol B.

Your Cat Chooses You?

Some people rely on the old saying, “Your pet chooses you.” While this can be the case, it’s a devastating notion when it comes to shy cats. A shy cat may fall in love with you from a distance, but be too timid to approach you—especially with bolder cats in the way, vying for your attention. When you’re at the shelter, be sure to look for that cat that may be peeking at you from a distance. Give him or her some time, maybe even over several visits. It just might turn out to be “your” cat after all.

Willow is a shy cat, waiting for someone to adopt her.
Willow, a shy cat

“Remember, the cat may be frightened and the personality you see at the moment may not reflect how the cat will be in a home environment without all the shelter stress. What matters now is whether you feel a connection. Let the cat come to you. Take the time needed for the cat to feel secure enough to come toward you, even just a few steps. “ Wellness Pet Food blog

6 thoughts on “Your Cat Chooses You?”

  1. Thank you so much for this blog entry! I have recently lost my cat of 14 years to kidney failure, and only two months later, adopted two shy cats. I was on the verge of giving them back after only two weeks when my husband recommended reading this. So, for now I am going to stick it out and see if we can get used to each other and in time, learn to love!

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    1. Oh! Your comment made my day! Yes, please do give them time and keep me informed of your progress. Don’t give up on them and I bet they won’t let you down!

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      1. Well, it’s been nearly six months since I adopted my two kitties. They are sleek and healthy, and will sleep on my bed (by my feet) but still won’t come up and “spoon” with me. They love being petted, and brushed, will play with the laser light, and other toys, but are still noticeably jumpy and shy. I long to cuddle them in my lap, or scoop them up for a hug, but they’re not quite ready for that yet. I guess I was spoiled by my former cat, who slept on my bed with me the first night out of the shelter!

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      2. Some cats just aren’t into that super closeness, but there’s still time. Since you can pick them up and brush them, keep doing that just before you sleep. Maybe they’ll take the hint. 🤔

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    2. Oh, gosh, I was so excited that I missed the part where you lost your 14yo kitty and I’m sending my sympathy. Kidney disease is taking away too many cats too young.

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